Confessing into change

For a very long time now I have refused to show and talk about my feelings or explain myself to anyone who is not extremely close to me. Extremely close are only my husband and my best friends. Even from them I am sometimes hiding how I feel, especially when I think they might be influenced in taking a decision. Do you know why that happens? Because I truly believe that expressing your feelings has a manipulative purpose. I know with my conscious mind that is not always true. But I still have not been able to really convince myself of the fact.


I grew up with a parent figure that used feelings to get us kids to do things. Then I was in a relationship for ten years where he would use emotional blackmail and emotional manipulation on a daily basis. He would withdraw his Continue reading “Confessing into change”

Soul and Mind

A person’s soul seems to be the most fragile thing. We tend to hide it away, to protect it. But it is not our soul that is fragile, but out psyche. We let our mind lead the way throughout our lives, we identify with it. Would we identify with a hammer or tool box if we were carpenters, with a computer if we worked in an office, with a plane if we were pilots? No. Than why would we believe we are our minds? It is just a tool. A beautifully powerful and Continue reading “Soul and Mind”